Attitude
What makes attitude so important? Why not just learn some "seduction
techniques" to get the girl? The answer is simple: learning techniques (or
having expensive clothing and cars) without improving your attitude is like
wrapping a cheap gift in expensive wrapping paper. It still looks expensive
on the outside, but when the girl "unwraps" you, she'll find out that you
were faking it all along. This might work for a one-night stand, but if you
want anything more, you'll need to change both on the "inside" and
"outside". Here are some pointers for improving your attitude: 1) Get rid of your desperacy. You don't NEED a girlfriend. If having a
girlfriend or constant sex is the only thing that keeps you alive, then
you've got problems. Besides, women can smell desperacy like sharks smell
blood. 2) If you're going to do it, do it. Don't mope and whine and wait around for
the "perfect moment". Like a girl? Ask her out immediately. Don't be
paralyzed and spend weeks wringing your hands over the situation. If she
says yes, then you've succeeded. If she says no, you saved yourself a few
weeks of useless moping and thinking. Taking action is the essence of
confidence. 3) "Be yourself" does not mean you should just sit on the couch watching
porn. It simply means you shouldn't pretend to be someone else. You should
still strive to improve yourself; your appearance, personality, career, and
everything else that matters. Pretending to be a top-shot lawyer when you're
just a legal clerk is fake; improving yourself is genuine. 4) Don't be afraid of rejection. So you asked the girl out and she said no.
So what? There's 3 billion more girls out there, and 150 million in the
United States alone. If you ever want to succeed, you'll need to face
rejection. Don't take it personally either; you can't expect every girl to
like you. Do you like every girl on this planet? Attitude is perhaps the most important factor when it comes to dating.
Remember that attitude is essentially your personality. You might look good,
have plenty of money, and drive a fast car, but if your attitude isn't
right, the only women you'll be dating are the ones you pay for. Daniel Okula is a writer and a web publisher for dating articles from http://datingtalk.net. Find more similar articles on his website.
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